Making $200K: Wife Wants Me to Get a “Real Job”

I'll turn gay to marry that dude if she doesnt want him. Women nowadays smh

yeah, that’s not real, that’s a dream for most

More like "okay, Karen"

Karen

I’m sure that’s not what she meant. She surely meant a traditional job but words are hard

Why? Shes correct, its not a real job because hes not an employee. He is the owner. A real job is working for someone else, and collecting a paycheck. There is a big difference, relative to the discussion he was referencing.

@sean8204.5 so by your rationale every business owner is unemployed? You are the one arguing from the perspective of irrelevance. Your definition of a real job involves having a boss. Your rationale means every McDonald's worker flipping burgers has a real job but a CEO doesn't have a real job.

@@sean8204.5 so every CEO, founder, owner, co-founder of any company doesn't have real jobs to you and is an unemployed person?

@sean8204.5 that's ridiculous as it instantly makes all bosses without bosses unemployed.

@sean8204.5 that's ridiculous as it makes every boss without a boss a fake employed person.

Is that such a bad thing?

@@RichieD_21 that is a separate thing... back to the issue: if she would have just said that, they could find a way. but she instead she mocks him and makes a fuzz.

@@RichieD_21 hiding aversion to responsibility behind a catty insult is the bad thing. She's obviously toxic AF.

@@AliSidTex i think you're looking too deep into it. No one is perfect. Weve all said things we didn't mean to people we love out of stress. They seem to have a really strong marriage. Not alot of people would be able to run businesses with their wife and not want to rip their head off after a while.

@@AliSidTex you are making too big of a fuzz of her statement. She simply meant go get employed to simplify life and let go off some responsibilities. As Dave said: "that's the stress talking out of her."

Her occupation is irrelevant

@@hylianlegends it's not. She doesn't make any money and she's running her mouth because she's lazy.

@@harthart7529 she’s taking care of three children, making more than $50,000 a year teaching full time and providing health insurance for the entire family and President of the retail store. Odd description of lazy😂

@kathypatterson6813, to be fair, we don't know how much she or he actually takes care of the kids. I would argue that her telling her husband he doesn't have a real job and that she already wants to retire is more evidence that she is lazy-minded than not. More than likely, her kids are adults or not very dependent on either one of them, based on their age and her desire to retire. It seems selfish to me, expecting one to provide college funds and not wanting to chip in. At the same time, I want to know what both of their workloads are, which perhaps would tell the complete story.

@@kathypatterson6813 Teaching is not a full time job for the most part. it has ATLEAST 2-3 months of vacation a year.

exactly. keep the business and get rid of the wife.

If its an 8hr workday its about $120/hr pay rate. Not too shabby at all

​@@LetsGo6009 he mentioned doing six hours, not eight

True but they're turning a mil to make 50k, that's the reason for the stress right there. Decent if you just look at a net check but that's poor margin.

@@arlinsmith9964 I agree it’s a poor margin. I own and operate my own small business and it takes me working a lot of days/hours to clear $50k though.

Congrats on getting custody, sounds like they’ll be much better off with you than her

I don’t know if it’s fair to say this wife wants to “tear everything down” She isn’t your ex wife’s twin necessarily
They’re at a crossroads-both having worked hard for 25 yrs or so. They need to re-calibrate. I think they also need to plan date nights w/out any mention of their businesses. He mentioned that when they went out they’d wind up talking about the business issues/problems. Bringing work home all the time is a bring. Conscious boundaries are needed. They’ll be empty nesters soon ( youngest one is 13) In addition to the business re-configurations. They maybe need to re-discover each other NOW before they just become ships passing in the night

Sounds like my problem or former problem.. you had a competitive spouse who never appreciated anything and she believed that the only way she could succeed was as long as you failed. Congratulations on cutting her loose.

Wow, glad you finding out👍

Same deal here and she did everything in her power to sabotage my ability to build a good and secure life for us but luckily kids were not involved. I still have absolutely no idea what motivated her. Last I heard she was deported for greencard fraud with the venezuelan guy she was banging while we were married. Some people are just pure poison I suppose. Be very very careful who you choose as a 'partner', that's for sure as you can burn decades of your life with the wrong person. Choosing nobody at all is also a very sane decision.

Do you pay alimony to your wife?

Sorry. Ex wife

She didn't want you to be a high value male. As she gets older her value decreases and this made her feel insecure. This type of woman's value only decreases in the material world, but that's the world she lives in. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

@@markalbert1283 what wow . Glad you make the move . You deserve better ! Too much

@@auctevia Thank you. One of the hardest things to do is, to walk away from someone you love, because they're not good for you.

Yup the broke ones😂

That's exactly what it is.

The president makes 300k plus.... 500k is literally hedge fund ceos. Or big company.

@@martinithechobit The President of the United State official salary is 400K, VP makes 250K

@@martinithechobit president makes $400K.. hedge fund dudes make millions or at the top billions per year.

She sounds like the sort of woman that compares her husband to her friends spouses and says "why can't you be more like Debbie's husband"

She a traditional “karen”

The spoilt ones are always so ungrateful…

you were hearing but not listening lol.
What she complains about is to do 2 jobs while being a mom to 3 children.
Shes working full time at the school so they can get health insurance + tuition reductions worth like 60k while working more hours at their store as well.
She doesnt complain about how much money he makes, she complains that the way they are earning their money forces her to be a teacher because of health insurance when she would want to do something else.

She wants to cheat, have an affair and this way she can get her husband busy enough to be out of the way to do that. Or she's listening to some jonesies and she's competing with another woman's husband who has a job.

modern western women (especially in coastal cities) are absolute trash man - I used to live in NY and experienced this myself many times - girls too focused on money and status. Found a nice humble girl that came from a good family and I am beyond grateful

Well a townhouse kinda sucks. It’s not really yours. You share it with a neighbor. It’s no better than an apartment. Still, she’s unemployed and has no say.

Buying a new house which will be considered her owning as well when she breaks up with you even without her name on it. So many guys lost ancestral home to gf who went to court to claim the house being unemployed and living there. Guys are clueless with how the laws work with women's manipulation.

​@@KrisFlix idiotic take

⁠@@KrisFlixhave you not lived in an apartment and a townhouse before?

Sounded like they can't not talk about it constantly. It's 'in the way'. Weirdly.

Hire a manager and step out of that business, make it passive...

​@@DVulsounds like they already have one. They just can't stop talking about it.

Woman who needs them kmt

The entire "problem" boils down to: She wants to spend her husband's money instead of making her own. Because she wants to retire before he does.

and she wants her toes in the sand at 50? this lady is actually delusional about how life works. people swear if they had all the money they could ask for they'd be doing nothing. You'll end yourself doing nothing, go find a purpose lady cus eating off your mans isnt it

She's being silly but you're also vastly underestimating how much a teacher works. Schools ends at 3:30 but teachers arrive around 7:30 and will be making lesson plans/tests and marking late into the evening. They do work alot more than a typical 9-5

@@boredguy5805stop it. They plan when they’re in their sofa. MAYBE 2 1 hour long meetings a week. That’s NOTHING

@@boredguy5805blah blah blah. The day of the teacher worship is over until their profession as a whole improves from its plague as a brainwashing ideology system.

Amen

I just ended a 10 year relationship, my significant other didn't respect what I do... and would not see things from my angle... it is just better he gets a new wife. I would say he picked wrong but to be real, women are not taught to see things from the other persons angle.

@@simoncameron4355 it all depends on the woman. There are great women out there who support their men and understands them. But I think in general times had changed and it’s harder to find good people in general. You’re better off being single and respect yourself than being in the relationship and the other partner thinking only of themselves.
Good for you for ending it. Most people stay because they are afraid to be alone.
Peace and Love.

Lol theres plenty of girls that will treat a man making 200k right. He needs to get rid of her ​@simoncameron4355

Imagine not understanding she’s bound by 5 days at a school, then going to a second job. She can work the store and make 50+k or she can just do the teaching. This husband is a douchecanoe. they would have 200k a year instead of 250k. Simple solution, sell the store and she stays a teacher.

@@mayacardano9905 Just because I am curious what percentage of marriageable women are out there do you think? I mean women who have been with less than 5 people their whole lives... because the stats show that when a woman has slept with over 5 people their chance for divorce goes through the roof. (and that is just one aspect of a "Good woman"?

Jesus says love your wife as christ loves the church. If your not nice to your wife your prayers will be hindered. Just make sure you picked the right one. I'm still learning to do this married for 22years. But yes we will have a conversation.

@@sf49ersjshark2 Bible also says wives, respect your husbands.

200k puts you at top 5% earners, some women just cannot be happy

​@@markconner5341 Ramsey and the imps who follow him cherry pick the parts of the Bible they choose to follow.

​@@gahaha8565Tbh I expected her to be an asshole that just wanted the money. However I do believe people in the comments treat her unfairly. It's not necessarily about the money, more so the stress it puts on a family that already earns a lot and she also contributes quite well to that so there's no leeching involved. She's likely willing to even lose some money if it means more peace of mind. I completely understand wanting to shut down the store if it makes such little money in comparison to the rest. Being in charge of a store with 20 employees can be quite stressful even if they only have to work 1-2 days a week in there. This guy even says it himself, it's the only thing they talk about in their marriage, for what? 50k when they're already set? These things can clearly burn out a marriage and they'll likely have started noticing it.

Not a coincidence that I have as well come across Katherine Ann McGrath, she’s an exceptional person and great in her field of financial services.

@@ChailleMoznett Just another similar commendation on her expertise, I saw the interview and immediately I knew she was financially intellectual as said.

@@staceywilson-e2f
This is an impressive achievement. How can I look up the stated expert? I plan on setting my finances on autopilot till the 3rd quarter of the year.

@@SNewell-i2u
That should be pretty easy, look up her up and you will see every information about her.

Her website ranks top, you can as well see her certifications and years of expertise on SEC and FINRA broker check.

This woman has everything and hates her life

@@rickyayy Hopefully she decides to down the tylonal.

woman moment

My ex wife lmaooo

Spoilt brat syndrome. Most women have it

She's completely looney.

The ONLY disadvantage is that you forgo your "safety." If you forgo your standard career path, then you don't have those "years of experience" and therefore becomes harder to get a job in your chosen career down the road. Other than that, I 100% agree, it's better to be self-employed and be able to do things for less hours. Time is invaluable.

@@eduardomartindelcampo4555 there is no safety. I see comments all the time people working decades at one job thinking its a career, something happens whether it's a injury or whatever then they get fired and someone else takes their place. Job safety is an elusion with most companies.

You have to think more critically about about what she's saying - of course she values his income, but she likely also feels exhausted by the amount of work that she's putting into her lower paying job in comparison to her husband who likely lives more freely.. Being a teacher SUCKS. I've done it. It's awful front to back. She's staying in that position to cover health insurance and fund her children's $20,000.00 private school education. She's probably making $60,000 - $70,000 which including the tuition rebate [$20,000] and health insurance for 4 people [$25,000+] her contribution starts to look more like $115,000 +. When she tells him to go get a real job, she means a to get a job that difficult so he can understand the stress she's feeling. She wants less stress.

@@deehoo40quit being a teacher and homeschool the kids. Problem solved.

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Indeed😊

She IS the real problem in her life.

Get rid of her.

How long before she starts cheating on him?

​@@dogguy8603already is

Something is wrong with that woman or she looking for a way out of the marriage or That guy is not telling the whole story

​@@jaesall3519 I have a teacher wife as well, and they are completely delusional on the finance front. It's horrible for men like us.

@@jaesall3519 women lash out at their husbands. somehow in the west, they think it's okay to treat people that way.

@@jaesall3519 exactly
when women feel they married/dated down and could've done better they look for every opportunity to start a fight

Honestly, she just sounds lazy. She wants to quit her full time job so she can work at her 8 hour a month store. She’s talking about her husband getting a “real job” so she can quit her job and she wants to sell her part time job so she can lay out on the beach. She wants every option that means she’s retired as a teacher and not doing shit else in life.

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thats why if woman makes way less than you u need prenup and if she complains then fuck off

Sad truth

And go after the assetts.

@@tashainjena claim financial abuse

It's her plan to make him quit everything then she rug pulls him and leaves him in shambles☝️🤓

Okay thanks. What the hell lol

I still don’t get it. What exactly does he do?

Wait what? I was thinking of selling treadmills after he said he made 150-200K a year in profit... is that not what he does???

@@HilltopperTA No. Look up EntreLeadership on Ramseysolutions which is a book but also is his analysis on business which he breaks up into 5 stages. The 5 stages describe what stage you are in with your business. It does not necessarily mean that you have to go to the next stage, but it gives an understanding of what is required from you if you are in a particular stage.
The first stage is Treadmill Operator. Go look it up.
Unless I am wrong, and this guy is actually involved in treadmills, then its the guy simply saying, "treadmill operator," to describe how he runs the business.

@@HilltopperTAsells and repairs probably

That's the most logical statement here.

They probably share accounts

All the old people in my life think the same way, "You need a pension". Grandma if I get an extra 100k a year and invest it myself the pension would require you to be insane to take it

Don’t listen to them. I would suggest making saving one of your highest priority as a contractor that’s all.

@@FirstLast-xk6fdthat is why I started to buy rental properties. That is my ‘pension’.

I have no idea why anyone would say 197K income is not a real job. Just buy your own health insurance, max out your IRA every year and on top of that put money into an individual stock account because you can afford it. If you invested 10% of your income into the S&P 500, you will have almost $10M in 40 years. 15% of your income About $14M and 20% of your income almost $20M in 40 years. I’m not sure what a pension is, but I’m I’m pretty sure it’s not $10M - $20M.

Please don’t become a GS lol. Unless you’re ready to retire-in-place for 20+ years.

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Actually Dave should cover this. A. Yes, I think there's a gender difference here and women resent this more than the inverse B. There is a resentment that women have "carry the benefits" (which almost always means working FT) while Hubby pursues his dream in business..
This isnt' the only couple to go through this.

@@cstuartdc Well, she can’t have it both ways. She is better off being a stay at home mom. He can buy health insurance and eat the cost of tuition or send them to public school. Women, in mass, are not designed for stressful jobs. They crack easily.

@@lonestarrk9308 I agree that some women can't seem to reconcile realities with their desires. The world "oughta be" vs the world "is". They want daddy to make it all better

@@lonestarrk9308 sounds like an excuse. Men aren't running around looking to be stressed out either. Women just don't have a problem throwing their load onto your back. It's poor character on her part. He should divorce her.

😂😂😂😂​@@lonestarrk9308

Top 5 in us maybe but compared to the rest of the world might even be top .1

I made a large sum of money on learning to daytrade and quit my job and still hear it from my 97yo grandmother if I’ll ever go get a real job again.

@@mikeg2491you won the lottery. Congrats!

better yet, don't take financial advice form women

@@Namronnnn45 Certain women, yes. All women, not necessarily.
I have seen some women give excellent monetary advice.
I have seen a lot of men give very poor monetary advice.
Poor person, poor source for advice about money; rich person, possible good source for advice about money, but not always!

💯

Indeed😊

The wife could care less about the husband she wants the money not the husband

If she quit teaching and went to the store full time, she could build the store to compensate for the loss of tuition assistance.

you may be right but this is quite the asssumption

Yep, she is the definition of "Toxic". She needs a professional to tell her that.

We're in the 21st century but people still have a hard time taking off the kids gloves for women.

She works 40 plus hours at work plus the added responsibilities of the store and also runs a household. Its a lot of work.

According to the religious right she should be home taking care of the kids and not outside of the home.

@@missyevitt8150she ‘s ungrateful. She makes a 1/4 of his income.

​@@missyevitt8150 Yeah. Those 2 hours a week at the store must be hell. Lol!

It's almost like not everyone wants to work above full time when all of their financial needs are already met. What's the point in making extra spending money just to burn out and not be able to take care of your family?

Both are crap for dividends and speaking from experience staying single is better for your finance tbh

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@@Austenfan177 I doubt he does either but, reality sucks.

She has a real job also as a teacher, he is doing his job as the man of the home bring in the money for their family

@@natalieeubank4533 You can't justify her actions. She belongs to the streets.

Because she wants to sit on the beach, and do nothing, spoiled

Because that would take effort, would be more "stressful" than being a teacher, might include a long commute, might require working the summers, weekends and holidays, would be time away from family and her favorite "Housewives of ......" show, and prevent her from spending time on her hobbies. I'm shocked she wants someone else to do it for her. SMH.

These are absolute facts.

100% you nailed it,.....ppl are jealous when they see the ease at which you bring in money and want you to suffer like they are.

This is what a healthy partnership looks like. So happy you're blessed this way.

@@jenniferpearce1052 thank-you.

Trump is going to beat communist Kamala. just so you know

Sounds like a prison if your life choices are dictated by health insurance

@@allananderson949 lol sadly, you are correct.

Men often stay because of the govt. If govt didn't exist, this woman would have a 180.

She’s definitely heading down that path

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Gabriel alberto william is the licensed advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with..

Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up immediately. I looked through his credentials and did my due diligence before contacting him

Girl math

Wild😅

@@Austenfan177 no

MIGHT BE TIME TO CONSIDER A NEW ONE!

Tell her to find one for herself and then you'll consider changing yours.

Yeah. We listen to Ramsey. Every other call reflects it.

Who the hell WANTS to work unless its for yourself

@@firefly9838 people who don't want the risk, who want to be compensated for their labor while letting someone else take the risk.

@@firefly9838 I was told just recently, if one can't work for themselves, get a government job. the person that told me this got a government job. Nice pensions and SS. Both him and the spouse the same.

You don't know that.

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I don't really like this guy, I would not like dealing with him. Wife seems unpleasant too, possibly from dealing with him.

@@rational9229 are you ok?

​@@bushmonster1702 its the dudes wife she knew he was going to be on this video.

You can’t be that lucky to work for someone who only employs part timers and expect them to hold up the business without investing back into the employees

Definitely, he needs a real wife and a appreciative one.

Yup.

Probably also has a side piece already and she is shopping lawyers for the divorce.

@@markbernier8434Ahhh! Good catch! A “real job” meaning one she can collect child support on.

@@markbernier8434 Yup. Looking for excuses to break it off and justify it to her self . She's already left

honestly sounds like it could be run a lot tighter. He's not investing a lot of attention to it. It sounds very loosey goosey. It could probably crush if they tightened things down.

​@@axt2That's what I thought. 20 part time employees sounds a bit strange.

Casual sexism isn’t very funny

In the 50's my Dad worked a modest job, Mom stayed at home and raised the kids, and they lived a nice middle class lifestyle including owning a home. Nowadays both I and my partner works and can barely afford to make ends meet. Soon the kids and family dog will need to work to keep this household going. It's the destruction of the American dream right before our eyes.

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How can I reach her?

Thanks for the info. I'll reach out to her immediately

This! She’s obviously stressed and he’s obviously good at being a business man.

If he takes the Presidency away from her, she'll scream bloody murder and claim financial abuse.

I don't know he says she only works 8 hrs per month but they talk about the business all the time? Something seems off this story seems too one sided.

And he says he is always working. Maybe her complaint centers around not really having much time for each other. And if he's making that much freelance he actually might be able to get a higher paying job for the big wig companies with less hours of work.

@@KManAbout what if that's not what he wants?

That last sentence defines her as "Toxic". She needs counseling for 6 months, then they both need to go together. Her mirror is not working.....and someone needs to tell her to her face, that is not the husband. If she doesn't "get it", then the man needs to move on.

Not if she goes to florida and a gator takes her .

this is exactly how I feel, wife decided to be a teacher as well...

​@derekp6636 u decided to marry her

She does NOT need to pull the yoke. She needs to be a mother and appreciate what her husband provides. They have been making money for 2 decades... they are not going hungry or will die broke.

@@bradleygraves5915 After 26 years, there are no kids to be a “stay at home mom” for. She absolutely should keep pulling her weight as long as he is.
There’s nothing magical that says one spouse “deserves” to retire decades before the other. Should he get to retire and expect her to keep working to support his choice?

Real women appreciate when their partner is contributing. Spoiled brats living in a Disney wonderland will always be looking for the next happily ever after.

​@@jeabo0adhd The women you describe are not commonly found in the US. This dude should pack his bags and head to South East Asia.

@@jeabo0adhdReal women do what the woman here is doing. Men will damn near cut their nuts off for women, so if a woman is with a man not willing to do that for her, she can find a man who is. As long as we as men keep valuing women the way we do and keep putting them on a pedestal, their most reasonable, self-benefitting course of action is to continue to bleed us dry.

She wants more and more but is getting older and older. Doesn't seem like a good investment.

The professionals presently control the market since they not only have the essential business strategy but also have access to inside information that the general public is not aware of.

Right, I've been in constant touch with a financial-analyst since covid . You know these days it's really easy to buy into trending stocks, but the task is determining when to buy or sell . My advisor decides entry and exit commands on my portfolio, I've accrued over $1m from an initially stagnant reserve of $450K.

How can I participate in this? I sincerely aspire to establish a secure financial future and am eager to participate. Who is the driving force behind your success?.

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I just googled her and I'm really impressed with her credentials; I reached out to her since I need all the assistance I can get. I just scheduled a caII.

You just listed 2/3's of female occupations: Secondary education, Healthcare, and HR. All noble endeavors....but you won't be retiring in your late 40s.

Also the ppl that cheat the most

@@Eaglejake add "influenecer", insta model, cashier, secretary, and pain in the ass. That covers 99% of their jobs

​@@djaeger-k5m My mother and grandmother are nurses. Neither have ever cheated. Although my mother did get cheated on by my father.

Retirement is a great goal--within reason. She is mid-40s and wants to be retired in 10 yrs. But no economic plan to get there. Teachers tend to be lower paid but have good retirement benefits. She seems to want to chuck all the financial security she also provides (cheap tuition for kids, good health insurance and retirement benefits). And let him take on all the financial burdens. She needs a major reality check😎

She works there 8 hours per month and it brings them $50k per year. Selling it is ridiculous.

@@harthart7529Yeah another option is for her to stop teaching and just do the 8 hour a week at the store. He makes enough money with the additional 50k from the store. Only problem is all of that free time that she’d have can cause issues. People are funny, they say they want to have the freedom to lay around and do nothing, then when they get to do it they lose their minds and create problems that don’t even exist.

Move #2 to the #1 position. That might allow for keeping the store and $50K annually for 8 hours per week.

$520/hr is "not making much money"?
Since you have too much, will you give me some?

@@michaelsorensen7567 He works there once a week for 6 hours, she works there 8 hours a month so (52x6) + (8x12) = 408 hours worked by them per year at $50K profit is $122/hr profit for their labor which is still nice but not $520/hr. The primary problem is the huge stress level it brings the wife to be involved in it. How do you calculate a cost there? With the guy already making $150-200K and the wife making say $50K to be a teacher then you are talking about going from $200-250K to $250-300K but the wife dealing with much more stress. Do they really need that to add 20% extra income when they already make $200K+? Also, they own that business, so maybe they are able to sell it off for a nice chunk of change and put that towards the kids school, etc... Having 20 employees can lead to a lot of personnel issues for various reasons not to mention gossip and drama which I suspect is part of the stress on the wife. I maintain strongly that they need to jettison that business and it isn't worth their time given everything I'm hearing.

⁠@@FlowerPower-r8h She has a sheep/follower mentality. That’s nonsense! You can get very good health insurance for like $300 a month, that’s $3600 a year. Why would he quit making 200k just to save 4k?

@@FlowerPower-r8h I mean seriously are you braindead?

That statement holds no value and really isn't relevant...

​@@FlowerPower-r8hher job doesn't matter she should quit .

@@CowboyQuan wait. 100k/hr in salary, health insurance, and tuition assistance isn't relevant? Do go on. I'd love to hear this.

Talking things out is necessary, but it still doesn't guarantee anything. People and circumstances change over time. You never really know what your spouse's "true colors" are until you're deep in the trenches with them. Marriage is all one big fat risk that isn't really worth taking anymore unfortunately, especially not when you're constantly stressing out as to how to keep her "happy"

I agree. The kid has 5 years at most.
They aren't considering the tuition cut or healthcare as lost compensation either. Private school tuition is like $30-60k, and another $7k for private health insurance. It will cost them twice her salary to quit the school.
Sell the store, use the money to buy a beach house and rent it out for the five years - should cover the missing store income. Have the wife work at the school until the youngest graduates, and then retire off of his treadmill operator income at the paid off beach house.

Yeah he was tailoring his facts to get Dave on his side. Now he can go win this argument with his wife.

it's a pet project. he asks her for direction decisions at 2 dinners a week. That's all it is. needs to ditch teh store.

Cashing out before she files.

@@heynow07xExactly. She will get more alimony if she doesn’t work.

Wow that's huge, how do you make that
much monthly.

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@stoneJulio She’s mostly on TELEGRAMS, using the ?…

Yes and I think the stressed is that she’s had to have a job with benefits-“a real job”= JOB WITH HEALTH BENEFITS- that’s a v/important factor in taking care of your family’s needs

Well said

I respect you

My husband had a year like that it was brutal!

You're not alone, I agree

I'd gladly take my 40 plus week and the cut to 50k for 1 fifth the time

I think you've missed the point. From your statement, I also think you live by yourself. You are missing way to much information to make that kind of statement.

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@@Austenfan177 he can just buy health insurance tho… 🤣

@@Austenfan177 She means a job with health insurance, so she can run the store instead of working for someone else.

@@Luis.Fernandez17457 And that is the solution to their problem.

@@Luis.Fernandez17457Yes, health insurance is something he can buy, but it sounds like he hasn’t.

@@Austenfan177 No lack of work ethic. She has been teaching for 20 years and managing a business. She just wants to do one or the other at this point. Also, a lot of private schools require a good amount of additional work when you have kids attending (weekends, nights, breaks possibly).

She wants the money and lifestyle yet no longer wants to put the effort into making the money that's needed for said lifestyle.

If it was a man saying this to his wife, everyone would tell her to dump him.

Agreed. Sounds like one of those families that is house poor and private school poor so she can look wealthy in front of trendy freinds or something

Where is the $3.5M you guys made? Did you spend it all on a Mcmansion and Sandhurstington tuition?

Retail is pretty chill except for rush time.
Try being in a factory or skilled trades on your feet doing heavy and or complicated stuff for 10 hours a day. That'll get her wishing to go back to retail let alone 8 hours a week

Teachers work far more than a 9-5 job.
We take our work home with us.
We work weekends.
And yes, surprise! We work during our summers off.
I have worked retail for 19 years and am a teacher.
Yes, I get the holidays off.
But, I work far more as a teacher.

Dude I am from a family of teatchers.
No retail work Is bringing home a 30cm thick sheet of tests to correct.

I think what both sides of this thread font realize is that right now, she's doing both. She has the 24-7 stress of being responsible for the retail store (even if she's not there at the time) AND she's working as a teacher, with all the after-hours work involved. That's why she's stressed. It's too much to think about all the time. One or the other.

@@Bob-fk8vd Being a teacher is severely easy if you are organized. And yes, majority of teachers DO get summers off, spring break, winter break, every weekend off, every holiday off, and majority really don't teach the entire 9-5 hours as they often have blocks with no classes to teach where then the organized teachers will efficiently grade/prep while on the job. Nonetheless, working as a teacher is severely easier than working an 80 hour a week hard labour job that sometimes includes working outdoors in varying weather.
Let's be real.

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Yeah, imagine if he said, "im stressed, i want to give up my 150k business". Instant divorce

She doesn't have to leave the house I think she don't realize it lol

Yep, the textbook definition of "Toxic". Her mirrors are not working at her house. She needs a professional counselor to tell her that she is toxic to the relationship.

That’s effectively what they’ve done now. She spends two hours a week there.

I'd just hand over ownership and cut the take to like 20k fixed royalty. see what happens. not a huge loss either way if it improves your quality of life that much.

Bingo....no point after a certain age

​@@ejacoby Past a certain age, the single ladies are seeking to marry a retirement plan.

I agree 100 % ...

Don't marry. Spend your life with your significant other, but just don't sign the Government Contract, aka "Marriage License". Keeps everyone on their best behavior. Facts sting.

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SHE’S MOSTLY ON TELEGRAMS APPS WITH THE BELOW NAME.

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Wow, why doesnt she do that for you man😂

Or someone who loves her there 😂 sounds exactly like the guy buying his wife an suv lol

@@growinglifeorganic940 What?

Would she do the same for you ?

@@robthomas3956, I was thinking the same thing. His completely null, one-sided love is extremely unhealthy.

Indeed, she's spoiled with a husband that makes 100-200k a year

Slags are always hags. Remember that.

Tell us you're an entitled female without telling us you're an entitled female. smh

Hi. I’ve been forced to find additional sources of income as I got retrenched. I barely have time to continue trading and watch my investments since I had my second child. Do you think I should take a break for a while from the market and focus on other things or return whenever I have free time or is it a continuous process? Thanks

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@@MartaRinker Oh I would love that. thank you.

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She’s probably gonna divorce him if he says no 😂

@@tristiandavis6852 she'll also divorce him if he says "yes"

@@exvan3571 actually that’s most likely true as well 😂